#64: The Coffee vs Drinks Date Debate

Putting it to rest

I remember back on Twitter (now X) in 2022, there was this exhausting 3 or 4-day debate—rife with quote tweets, performative paragraph threads, and useless arguments—over something as simple as where to take women on a first date. If there’s one thing Twitter excels at, it’s bringing out massive ego investment in relatively small, low-stakes conversations.

But is it really low-stakes?

Actually… no.
When you're discussing strategies to get women back to your place, logistics is one of the most important elements—if not the most important. So, yeah, the coffee vs. drinks debate matters. And what that conversation really exposes is everyone’s ego attachment to their personal dating strategy.